LOOK BACK TO THE FUTURE!

Life has been described as a path, a direction in which we travel over time - rather than a single event. Each of us gets to choose the direction our path will take us. By making those choices, we also clear the way to achieving the objectives we've set for ourselves.

When we fail to choose the path we will travel, that is also a choice. In that case, the path we travel becomes less distinct with more twists and turns than we would have liked. Each side path we encounter tempts us to change direction. Lacking any roadmap of objectives we might have chosen, we often end up somewhere - else.

Regardless of the quality of our choices, we can get a clear understanding of where we are likely to end up - just by turning around. By simply looking back at the path we have been following, much can be learned. For example, is the path behind us straight, or filled with curves and detours taken? Is it paved with solid, masterfully laid stepping-stones, or filled with muddy ruts that zig-zag around every obstacle?

Chances are that, as teenagers, most of our paths seemed to have had many twists and turns. As we matured and learned from our mistakes, however, it is also likely that we began improving the direction and quality of the path we traveled. The more attention we paid to the path, the more enjoyable the journey became.

Want life to be a most pleasant journey? Build your own roadmap - then start paving!

Julie Beall

INSPIRATION FOR TODAY:

THROW AWAY THE BAND-AIDS!

What do Scotch Tape, Post-It Notes, and paper clips have in common? Each apparently has a different function, is made of a different material, and serves its own purpose. Oh sure, you can say they're all office supplies - and you'd be right - but look a little deeper for their common purpose.

Scotch Tape pieces are placed along the edges and on the ends of holiday gifts - for a short period of time. Post-It Notes are stuck to documents suggesting that a signature is needed, or some action be taken. Once the action is complete, the note is discarded. Paper clips hold two or more things together for a few hours or days, and are then returned to the desk drawer.

Figured it out yet? They are all just a temporary "fix" - a momentary solution to a temporary need. They are used in "reaction" to a short-term need. They are also similar to our daily personal lives. When feelings are hurt and the tears come, we automatically reach for a Kleenex. We might, on the other hand, have taken time to determine the source of those feelings and concentrated on resolving a difference before tears were necessary.

When our children misbehave, we react with a 15-minute (or 3-day) "time-out." We might have avoided that temporary fix by listening to their concerns and teaching appropriate behavior before the fact. Then, there are all the excuses we make, used like Band-Aids, to temporarily cover the flaws in our own behavior. Wouldn't a more permanent solution like performing to expectations, learning from past experience, or practicing excellence be more appropriate?

Yes, we live in a very fast-paced world. Quick solutions are the order of the day, yet we must eventually realize that we continually seem to need a fresh supply of Scotch Tape, Kleenex, or paper clips. By taking more time to look ahead, it is possible to eliminate many of the situations that require those one-minute Band-Aids. Avoid future "boo-boos." Search for, learn, and practice a more permanent and proactive life. That's right - "No more tears!"

Julie Beall

YOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS!

Walk into a totally dark room. What do you see? "Absolutely nothing," you say. Now, turn on the light. Where did the darkness go? Really - where is it now? Hopefully you will agree that darkness cannot exist in the face of light.

During a lifetime, we experience many types of "darkness." It may appear in the form of discouragement, fear, hopelessness, grief, ignorance, or poverty. Yet, in every case, there is a "light" in which such darkness cannot exist.

Fear, for example, cannot exist in the face of courage. Education denies ignorance any chance of survival. Grief disappears in the presence of peace-of-mind. Discouragement ceases when hope prevails. Wealth denies poverty its chance.

No matter what form darkness takes, it cannot exist when faced with its opposite. That also means we have the ability to send darkness on its way at any point in time. No matter how overwhelming the darkness appears, it is our thoughts and our minds that ultimately control the outcome. How powerful is that?

In the words of several favorite authors: "Think you can, think you can't, either way you're right." "Your life is what your thoughts make of it." "We are what we think about all day long." Finally, in the words of Tom Bodett, from one of his Motel 6 commercials: "We'll leave the light on for you!"

Julie Beall

REPLACEMENT THERAPY!

Ever received one of those emails that contains a touching message, then suggests that if you forward it to ten more people you'll receive a "special blessing" or "ten million dollars in three days"? It usually also warns that the last person who didn't forward it met some terrible fate at the hands of unknown evil-doers. Remember how that last part - the veiled threat - made you feel? You didn't think something awful would really happen, but you resented being put in the position of wondering.

We've been told many times that our worst fears are of the "unknown." An unidentified fear sends our imagination into high gear, conjuring up vivid mental pictures of dastardly plots against us. We ruminate endlessly over the possibilities. Such fear is disruptive to our well-being, and leaves us tired and wrung-out.

So, how do you handle fear? One method is to identify the fear, so that once you do, it is no longer "unknown." That also means it is measurable, and can be logically quantified. Once you know what it is, your imagination can no longer dream up worse things that it is not. Once identified, it is possible to determine possible outcomes.

Most fears will never come to fruition. Those that do are divided into two categories: those we can control, and those we can't. If we have control, we also have the ability to survive our fears, and change their outcomes. Most fall into that category.

One mother's lifelong advice to her daughter who worried too much was to replace the worry thought with another more pleasant thought. The opposite of fear is hope, which also gives us courage. The next time you experience fear of the unknown, try replacement therapy. Think positive, hopeful thoughts when fear knocks at the door. Then, when you open the door - no one is there!

Julie Beall

INSPIRATION FOR TODAY: 

"A man's reputation is the opinion people have of him; his character is what he really is."

- Jack Miner, conservationist (1865-1944) 

HOW'S YOUR CREDIT? 

Ever hear someone say, "I have good credit"? They are probably referring to their credit "rating" - a score bestowed upon them by creditors, banks or rating agencies. Simply stating, "I have good credit" changes nothing, nor does the statement merit the attention of creditors. Credit can only be given by others for service to them, i.e. paying them on time.

So, credit is the result of serving others - in many ways. You cannot claim education, victory, experience, success, reputation, or a suave demeanor. Each of these is a gift from others, as a result of your service to them. Friends recognize your courage as a result of your being cool under pressure. Your success is recognized by others only once you have served them well. Knowledge of your career field is recognized by others only after it's been applied to situations in the form of more service.

In the accounting world of income and expense, a debit is something paid out, while a credit is something received. Thus all credits are received from others - not by our own making. The debits - what we pay out - are our efforts, persistence, and service. How they are rated is not under our control, but is determined by those served.

Without service, there are few rewards. Yet, you've seen those who insist on getting more attention than they deserve. They feel they're being short-changed, that they are not appreciated, that they are always the victim. If you look more closely at their contributions, you are also likely to see the dearth of service they are offering.

With service, credit follows. It may be subtle or quite visible - but it always follows. Concentrate on what you have to offer and forget the rewards. Those who are served will pick up the tab!

Julie Beall

"It's important to let people know what you stand for.
It's equally important to let them know what you won't stand for.

- B. Bader

How careful we must be today - to avoid the slightest slight to others. If we continue, we will become totally homogenized - each looking, acting, talking, and walking like each other. The unique identity into which we were born will mellow, fade, and eventually become transparent. The gifts and talents we have to offer will be so diluted as to go unnoticed.

What ever happened to our right to speak out against wrong? Why do we allow ourselves to be hushed and shushed when we verbalize our expectation of respect from the very young? Why are we so sensitive to what "they" think of our actions when we attempt to do good?

Each of us is uniquely individual. We are one of a kind, not just an ingredient in the soup of humanity. Each of us is born with the ability to make a difference, to contribute our talent, to expect the best. We have the ability to set standards for ourselves, to choose the principles upon which we live and serve.

We also have the responsibility to teach our children "what we stand for" as well as "what we won't stand for." By unashamedly living those principles, and expecting the same from our children, we help set the course for others who have not the strength to do so. We are the example.

Political correctness, as it applies to granting full respect for others is perfectly acceptable. Political correctness, as it is often applied as a choke-chain to restrain the desire to uphold what is right, is a gross misuse of the desire for simple courtesy and politeness.

Let's just drop "political" and be correct!

GOBBLE! GOBBLE!

Remember when you were a teenager leaving the house on a date? Your parents' last words as you went out the door were, "We'll leave the light on for you". Think about that. So what if they did or didn't leave the light on? Their words were really more of a verbal hug. They cared about you - wanted you to know it - and applied the hug with kind words.

With Thanksgiving in just a few days, why not take the time to "leave the light on" for someone who may not get many hugs? There's still time, and it's easy.

First, learn who needs hugs. Check with your local fire, police, or sheriff's department. Ask whether they know of three or four families or individuals who could use a hug. Ask also whether they would consider delivering your hugs at the appropriate time. Two groups stand out as needy - the elderly and families with small children. Of course, we're talking about individuals who are experiencing difficult circumstances in their lives, be they physical or financial.

Next, consider what type of hugs you have to offer. Perhaps you might prepare three or four Thanksgiving turkeys with all the trimmings. Live in the country where people heat their homes with a wood stove? Deliver firewood. Live in a cold climate? Add some warm socks or a sweater to your dinner box. It's really not that difficult to come up with ideas that would make a difference to your chosen recipients. If you aren't able to provide "things," consider visiting with some nursing home residents. Brighten their day by listening for a while.

It goes without saying that our country is truly blessed. Although practically invisible to most of us, however, there are some individuals who are being challenged. They need a hug, and we can brighten their lives by way of simple gestures. Make a family project out of it - involve your kids. Do it anonymously. Afterwards, when you get home, we'll leave the light on for you!

“Life is like a box of chocolates—you never know what you’re gonna get!”

We have all heard this popular quote from the movie Forrest Gump, but this time, you can know exactly what you’re ‘gonna get’…well, maybe not in life, but at Hidden Hill Gallery, you can create your own box of gourmet chocolates!

Not only are their chocolates rich and free of preservatives and artificial ingredients, but each individual truffle is a beautiful piece of artwork. Although the cheapest piece of chocolate is around $1.50, the intricate details of each one is well worth the price.

Not only do they sell pre-made chocolates, but you can also create your own! They begin with a base of milk, dark, or white chocolate (or truffles) and then add a swirl of peppermint, strawberry, caramel, or the flavor of your choice to build your own box of chocolates!

But not only does Hidden Hill offer “chocolate in art”, they also have fine art to purchase. Beautiful paintings, drawings, photographs, and prints done by fantastic artists decorate the walls for your enjoyment and purchase. If you’re looking for a large classy picture for your new home, or a small painting to spruce up your living room, Hidden Hill Gallery of Springboro has a wide variety of artwork, and a delicious snack for you to enjoy as you admire the gallery.

So if you’re looking for something fun to do without leaving Springboro, drive on over to Hidden Hill Gallery to feast your eyes and your taste buds on some of the finest quality art in the area!

http://www.hiddenhillgallery.com/default4.asp

by Brandi Hoffer and Julie Beall

Text messaging, E-mailing, Facebook-ing, Writing a Paper, while Listening to their i-pod—my generation is a multi-tasking one. We were the kids that participated in everything: ballet, t-ball, swimming, soccer, piano lessons, tap dancing. You name it, and we probably did it at one time or another; and not by ourselves either. Mom and dad, our ‘helicopter’ parents, were right there with us, holding our hands each step of the way.

Some researchers have given us the name ‘trophy kids’ because we practically got a trophy for everything we participated in (and it’s true—I still have a box full of all of my trophies just for breathing and wearing a jersey!).

But this new generation, being called the “Millennials”, are no longer kids anymore. We have grown up and are starting to take our first steps of independence. Mom and dad are still watching from the sidelines, and we are looking to them for approval and they are giving to us. So it is a confident reservation that we are stepping into the workplace.

And as we do this, we are looking to take our first big independent decision ever—purchasing a home.

So what are some things real estate agents should know about this rising generation? What makes or breaks a deal with a Millennial? How does this new generation respond to agents? What do they want most from a realtor?

I have taken the time to interview several Millennials who have purchased houses in the last year or are going to before this year is out. I will be posting these responses the next few weeks in the upcoming blogs.

Feel free to comment, Millennials! What do you want most from a realtor? What is your motivation for buying a house? Are you single or married? How involved are your parents in your decision?

by Brandi Hoffer 

and Julie Beall

As I turned down Yankee to start my trek back home, I decided to take a detour into Brookside. I noticed a moving truck in the driveway of one of the homes, and watched as the family was filling it with boxes upon boxes. Still a little far off, I saw his next door neighbor come out, coffee in hand to retrieve the morning paper. After a short exchange, he agreed to change his clothes and help his neighbor finish packing his boxes into the truck. The man seemed overcome with relief.

I continued on my way back home, now with a smile on my face. Though it was a small gesture to simply carry some boxes, its impact went deeper. We all know how a little act of kindness can go a long way, and the quality of neighbors really can make all the difference in a community.

by Brandi Hoffer and Julie Beall

Trivia Question of the Day: If you could live anywhere in the United States, where would it be?

          A.      New York City or Chicago! I love the big city

          B.      Give me the hot weather! I'm thinking Orlando or Santa Clara.

          C.      I prefer the remote rural areas in Arizona or Wisconsin.

          D.      Anywhere with a beach. Maine, South Carolina, Michigan, I don't care!

While you may have chosen one of the above places to live, Money Magazine is considering the following to be a top choice for Americans:

          E.       Springboro, OH

"Why?" you may ask? For its balance.

Springboro, Ohio is located within 30 minutes of the big cities, Dayton and Cincinnati, yet in and of itself does not have the congestion of a big city. Main Street portrays the old-fashioned history that the city contains, with quaint storefronts and family owned businesses. When asked, what is your favorite part of Springboro, one resident replied, "My favorite part about Springboro has to be Main Street. I love how it feels like a little town with so many family oriented businesses and restaurants. Especially K&W ice cream!" Another answered, "Don't forget the Tractor Supply Store! I bought birthday gifts there for my dad the last 2 years!"

Springboro also provides its residents with a various church denominations, quality private schools, and professional hospitals. It is also a bicycle friendly community that provides safe accommodation for cycling and encourages its residents to bike for transportation and recreation. Local farm markets and family-owned pizza restaurants provide a family friendly atmosphere for those in the community. Most of Springboro's subdivisions are even equipped with a community center with a swimming pool and tennis court. Heatherwoode Golf Course is also quite an attraction.

All in all, Springboro is a great mix of suburban life-small enough to feel old-fashioned and personal, yet big enough to stay connected and updated technologically. So look to see if Springboro makes it as ‘one of the top places to live in America' in Money Magazine's August Edition! (I certainly think it is!)

by Julie Beall and Brandi Hoffer

by Julie Beall and Brandi Hoffer

When it comes to food, entertainment, and housing, Springboro is a fine place to be. Springboro offers many social outings and a family friendly environment.

One attraction seems to be LaComedia. For thirty-three years, LaComedia Dinner Theatre has provided superior entertainment for the community of Springboro.  “A Taste of Broadway”. Or so they claim.

They perform 6 shows a year, and last autumn I was able to attend Beauty and the Beast.  Now, I have been to more than my fair share of musicals and plays on all levels, so I went into the show with a bit of skepticism.  They begin the evening with serving their house signature salad and then opening up the buffet. The food was truly something to rave about: Steamy sweet potato soufflé, chef-carved meats, and—my favorite—gourmet macaroni and cheese! So far, so good. If the show turned out to be a faux pas , then at least I could leave with a satisfied appetite.

As the curtain parted, my sixth sense of hypercriticism turned on. I was no longer another member of the 600 seated audience. I was a judge. A critic.

And so it began. The tale of the cursed prince in the castle was told. Belle entered the stage skippingand singing through the little town. A shot from stage left rang out, and Gaston boasted loudly about his kill of the day. Every character played the role to a tee. I sat in my front row seat, feeling like a little girl with my mouth agape, and eyes wide with fascination and amazement. Even the difficult portrayal of wolves in the forest and the unforgettable transformation of the beast into man proved to be phenomenal. No longer was I evaluating as a critic; no--I was enjoying this show just as a child would.

 Truly, LaComediahas captured a beautiful snapshot of Broadway productions. And to think that it lies so close to home!

Currently (from May 7^th – July 5^th) High School Musical is showing. Click on the following link to find out more information on this and other upcoming productions: 

http://www.lacomedia.com/playbill.htm

I think I may be seeing another production before this year is out. But this time not as a critic—as a little kid.

Lovely’s Farm Market Springboro, Ohio …..Simple Pleasures

Grabbing a cup of coffee on the way to the office, taking the kids to soccer practice, running by the bank, filling the car up, getting this week’s groceries, stopping by McDonald’s before the baseball game. Sound familiar? In the hustle and bustle of life, we may not take time to stop and enjoy the simple pleasures it has to offer—especially not in today’s busy society.

But rewind a generation or two and we see that our grandparents made it a point to enjoy the small things in life. Whether it was once a week for a Sunday morning church service, or every evening for a family meal, they took a time out for the small things. The simple pleasures.

One such grandfather was Lee Lovely. In the early 1920’s, he moved to Ohio from Kentucky to better support his family working at a paper factory. He and his wife soon purchased a piece of land to live out their dream of beginning a farm market. During the hard economic times of the Great Depression, the Lovely’s strove to earn a little extra money with this investment in sweet corn in tomatoes. Yet in the process, they encompassed the meaning of community: giving of themselves to help someone else.

Driving east on State Route 73, you may have never noticed the quaint store amid the new buildings and housing developments. Yet still today, Lee’s grandson, Steve Lovely continues to bring that same sense of community to Springboro—not only with his quality homegrown foods, but with his service.

So I urge you, the next time you drive east on 73 to give Lovely’s Farm Market a try. Whether it’s to pick up a watermelon for an afternoon picnic or to treat your kids to a scoop of ice cream, or simply to just experience some friendly, old fashioned service, make it a point to slow down a little bit. Enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

Here are some of my Lovely’s Farm Market’s favorites:

·         Fresh strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, watermelon

·         Ice cream, bags of candy, caramel apples

·         12 varieties of sweet corn

·         Tomatoes, lettuce, string beans

Lovely’s Country Café serves homemade fried chicken and sandwiches along with homemade sides!

For more information, visit: http://www.lovelysfarmmarket.com/index.htm

by Julie Beall and Brandi Hoffer